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215 children.

6/1/2021

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I don't have anything to add to the heartbreaking story of the discovery of gravesite of 215 Indigenous children in Kamloops. The students had attended the residential school in Kamloops in the 20th Century; they died under the care of that school. The gravesite was an open secret, but now there's some hard-and-fast evidence to back it up, and I can't stop thinking about it. 
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This is a shameful part of Canada's heritage. Here's to making things better.
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Capitalist change skeptic.

11/27/2018

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I saw an article today that describes how Western countries will not meet the environmental targets outlined in the Paris Accord. I'm not surprised about this at all.

Is anybody surprised? Of course no country is close to meeting the target. Capitlism doesn't work that way. Without profit, no capitalist system will make room for targets like these. https://t.co/ciK9ydRklp

— Jeffrey Nordstrom (@jeffnords) November 27, 2018
I'm not surprised for multiple reasons. Here are the most basic reasons I'm not surprised in the slightest:
  • CAPITALISM: Capitalism does not make room for anything that doesn't garner a profit. If these targets don't create a profit for shareholders, more profitable pursuits will gain priority.
  • TIMING: In capitalist, neoliberal systems, governments prioritize short-term profits over long-term gain. Even if one argues that the profits will appear in the long run, it doesn't matter when shareholders can't see beyond the quarterly report and the electorate can't see beyond the next election.
  • HUMAN SHORTSIGHTEDNESS: Humans do not perceive slow-moving, abstract threats as legitimate. Immediate threats will always have priority over distant ones that are hard to imagine,
But these reasons are, in my opinion, well-documented and common. They don't cover the main reason we won't meet these targets.

​The reasons above are systematically solutionable. We can solve those issues in various, systematic ways. That's what makes it so heartbreaking that we can't seem to get past it.

Here's why I'm not surprised at all that we won't meet the goals lined up in the Paris Climate Accord: because my life hasn't changed. Not one bit. I still drive my car way more than I should; I still keep my apartment warmer than I should; I still buy products like I did before. The Accord hasn't affected me directly one bit. 

How can we expect systematic change when it doesn't affect parts of the system? If the only cost to the accord is the rising price of gasoline, or a little extra inflation, how will we affect change?

I'd say we won't. Until the measures taken to meet those goals force me to change my ways, I can assume we won't meet those goals. As long as I'm insulated from the effects of the accord, Canada won't be acting in a way that lets us meet it.

The article reads,
Failure to slow the pace of climate change will inflict massive dislocation on people around the world, with expectations of prolonged droughts and fires in some regions, and more extreme hurricanes and rain storms in others, climate scientists warn.
All of those symptoms? Those are the most easy things to deny responsibility for. So until I learn to perceive my part in them, I doubt the entire country would be able to pull off a similar mindset shift.
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Shameless.

9/14/2018

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[EDITED SEPTEMBER 19 in order to include the links to CANADALAND and The Current.]

The New York Review of Books has decided to give Jian Ghomeshi a platform. WTF?

I'm so tired.... https://t.co/ohIYQCuKp2

— Eiynah --- (@NiceMangos) September 14, 2018
This seems just plain misguided. Like, why?

This is the same sort of thing we find as Louis C.K. tries to make a comeback: men get a platform to speak and defend themselves.

But geez, like, don't we have other people to platform?

When I saw the article about Ghomeshi, an odd thought appeared in my brain: "Where's the shame?"

I don't believe that shame is a good mover of change; just because someone feels shame doesn't mean they will act appropriately afterwards. But I'm a little stunned at the severe lack of shame in these attempted comebacks. But these guys, they get defensive, they dig their heels in. It's ugly.

And I don't get why brands, such as the Comedy Cellar or the New York Review of Books, want names like Ghomeshi and C.K. associated with their products right now. 

Just because they're famous doesn't mean you need to host their message on your platform. The New Yorker realized this when they misjudged their Steve Bannon speech. They reacted appropriately and removed him from that platform. 

But Ghomeshi and C.K.? Nobody needs this right now. Let them wither.

TWO OTHER RESOURCES: 
  • CANADALAND's follow-up fact-check of Ghomeshi's essay
  • The Current's interviews in response.
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Callout culture.

11/4/2016

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I can think of a few times over the last few years when I've felt uncomfortable with the ways people "call out" each other. My impression is that the person who "calls out" injustice feels their explanation is witty and useful, but it can often come-off as a conversation-closer. Despite this, I usually try to give the call-out a serious listen, even if I can't do it on the day of confrontation. If I'm uncomfortable with an idea, I like to try to get to the core of my discomfort.

A few weeks ago, I came across this article, "A Note on Call-Out Culture," by Asam Ahmad after somebody posted it to their Twitter feed. I didn't read it for a few days, but when I did I found a couple touching passages.

Here's the article:

"when someone has mastered proficiency in languages of accountability and learned to justify all of their actions" https://t.co/G3bTttogqi

— Jeffrey Nordstrom (@jeffnords) October 13, 2016
I think the article brings up some valid concerns, namely that "Calling-Out" is a performative act. When we call-out, the calling-out itself becomes the issue of importance. It's hard to keep one's aim straight on the content when the calling-out is so attractive in and of itself.

Most importantly to me, Ahmad writes,
There are ways of calling people out that are compassionate and creative, and that recognize the whole individual instead of viewing them simply as representations of the systems from which they benefit. Paying attention to these other contexts will mean refusing to unleash all of our very real trauma onto the psyches of those we imagine to only represent the systems that oppress us.
I believe in calling-out injustice, but I also believe that there are ways to do so that decrease damage and increase relationship. When we can confront people in ways that don't jade them or shift the focus of their concern, people have a chance to feel legitimized, even if their in the wrong camp. A successful call-out should allow the receiver of the call-out to feel as human as the person who performs the call-out themselves.
On October 24, The School of Life published this video, "Is It Better To Be Polite Or Frank?" which seemed to address some of my call-out concerns that day. The video compares "frank: and "polite" behaviours and evaluates their efficacy in different contexts. If you have 10 minutes, I highly recommend viewing it. 

I added a video to a @YouTube playlist https://t.co/La2Wrw9uIl Is It Better to Be Polite or Frank?

— Jeffrey Nordstrom (@jeffnords) October 24, 2016
In relation to the video above, I would argue that "calling out" is almost always an act of frankness: the person wants to bring something to the surface and "tell it as it is." However, the combination of performance and frankness shuts down nuance. Once the performance of calling-out begins, once somebody highlights somebody's apparent indiscretion. Calling out creates opposition and debate where nuance might fit better.
When I was searching for the first article in this blog entry, I came across a second article with a different focus. Kitty Striker wrote this article for The Walrus​: "The Problem with Callout Culture."

I think I'm starting to lean this way. | The Problem with Callout Culture https://t.co/HYV7GmffNZ

— Jeffrey Nordstrom (@jeffnords) October 25, 2016
For my purposes, the most pertinent part of this article reads,
For some critics, it feels safer, and more cut and dried, to call out an individual for saying something racist, for example, than to dig into the root of why they felt it was okay to say it in the first place. It’s less overwhelming to yell at one person than to, say, go after institutional oppression.
Calling out is fine if you want to frankly bring something to the surface, but terrible at identifying the root problems that maintain injustice. If anything, I would think that effective call-outs would immediately be followed by some empathic conversation between both parties. Call-outs draw attention to a problem, but may be a bad method for changing the systems they confront.

I'm all for changing the system; I'm all for calling out injustice. However, I'm more interested in workable ways to change the system than I am in forcing myself into a position where my frankness and performance force me to try to be "right" when I could very well be wrong, or missing the target altogether.
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On Jami Breese's "Crucial Conversations" notes.

10/24/2016

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Self-help, leadership, and motivational literature is all about getting out of ruts and expressing yourself authentically. Much like religious devotional literature, they all riff off of the same sorts of human truths. Also like devotional literature, what you connect with is often more a matter of tone than content.

I like these pithy outlines that I found on Pinterest today. They appear to be outlines from a "Crucial Conversations" workshop that Jami Breese put together in a creative and accessible manner. These notes have piqued my interest in Crucial Conversations, so I'll be keeping an eye out for potential future workshops.

I'm going to go through a couple of the ideas that I like here. Since it seems like the outlines are each in a specific order, I'll follow that order myself.

Sketch 1: #crucialconversations steps 1 & 2

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This sketch makes me think of the following:
  • "How did you get your way as a child?" Well, I imagine I sulked, considering how sulky I can be today. This is not a good thing. My sulking is one of the behaviors that I believe most exasperated my wife over the years. I need to learn how to assert myself and stand up to people without falling into a sulk.
  • "Unbundle with CPR: Content, Pattern, Relationship." I don't really get what the diagram shows, but I like how it ends at "relationship." I can't imagine much that doesn't. Despite all of my most difficult characteristics, I'd like to think that I always try to end at relationship. It doesn't mean I know how to get there, though. So perhaps I need to figure out what "pattern" and "content" are in order to get to the "relationship" part more effectively.
  • "Unhealthy motives:"​ 

Sketch 2: #crucialconverations steps 3 & 4

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  • "Separate facts from stories:" This is one of the main tasks I try to do with my students. All of us, myself included of course, create stories out of disparate facts and patterns, and then we have trouble interpreting those facts from patterns. It can be a serious problem for perception when our stories and facts get too intertwined. 
  • "The Downward Spiral:" I don't get this image. I guess you can spiaral out of control into a role, into either a villain, a victim, or a helpless? Not sure about this.
  • "Form a mentor network:" I am extremely averse to mentorship. Therefore, it's likely something I need if I'm going to get myself out of this rut.

Sketch 3: #crucialconversations steps 5 & 6

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  • "Silence=Withholding, Violence=compelling others:" Never thought of it that way. I'll have to check that out with my students.
  • "1: Step out of the Content, 2: Rebuild Safety, 3: Step Back In:" That's the sort of mantra I should have beside my desk. Many students come from broken homes and certainly do not feel safe in their lives. I like the idea of making sure the content I teach and the safety of the classroom are separate ideas. This could also be a good way to deal with some parenting issues, especially since home life is often too complex to really separate content from feelings.
  • "Respect is like air: You don't notice until it's not there--then it's all you notice." Ooo.... that's totally true. I can see call-out culture fans making memes out of that. (probably worth a separate post.)
  • "Contrast is a blue ribbon skill:" Comparison can be the enemy of moving forward because comparing often involves saying one thing is "better" than another. Contrasting, however, doesn't necessitate value judgements. I think?

Sketch 4: #crucialconversations steps 7, 8, & 9 

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  • "CRIB:" good parenting and group leadership plan. I'll look into it more.
  • "Lecture is a form of attack:" Which is why I've tried (and often failed) to stop using lectures as a communication technique.

I've printed off a few copies of these for my classroom so I can keep them on hand. Perhaps I'll post them to my filing cabinet with all my other resources. And then, once I get this apartment fully set-up, once the girls are settled in their new place, I'll be able to pick up the book and possibly try to adopt some of this. Maybe just one of them. Maybe just one.

Because I'm a dork and I have two whiteboards to put up in my home so I can lay out these ideas and try to get my life back on track. Because, as much as I'd like to deny it, I'm likely a teacher through and through. 
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